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Esse D
Apr 10, 20194 min read
8 Signs YOU’RE the Reason You’re Still Single
Self-reflection is hard. (…especially when it leads to the conclusion that YOU have been in your own way) No matter how hard it may be;...
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Esse D
Aug 9, 20183 min read
The Men Who Hate Natural Hair and How They Shook Me
“Does he like your hair like that?” That was the question I heard the most after I decided to chop my straight, relaxed hair off (leaving...
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Esse D
Jul 26, 20182 min read
5 Habits of a Successful Single Woman
Repeat after me. Being single is NOT a death sentence or a measure of desirability. I know several people that enjoy the single life and...
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Esse D
Jul 18, 20184 min read
9 of the Best Dates You Could Take YOURSELF On
You may think that taking yourself out on a date means you're a total loser. This couldn't be further from the truth! This may actually...
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Esse D
Jul 11, 20183 min read
8 Things You Should Do as a Single Woman
Everybody has their own idea of what single women SHOULD be doing in 2018. Most of it includes finding ways to get a good man, getting...
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Esse D
Feb 21, 20183 min read
Real life M.A.S.H. B.U.G.
It's funny how childhood can imitate adult life (in retrospect). I remember being 11 or 12 years old and possessing an almost obsessive...
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Esse D
Jan 18, 20183 min read
The Thin Line Between Self-Improvement and Self-Hate
We all would probably change something about ourselves if given the option (without the attached scrutiny). Let's be honest. We put on...
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Esse D
Oct 28, 20172 min read
Why aren't you giving yourself credit?
I was going to send this as an email because this is personal, but I figured I'd share it as a post instead. I started to really get down...
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Esse D
Sep 9, 20175 min read
10 Signs You're Not Ready to be in a Relationship
It's oftentimes glaringly obvious when you're not ready to be in a relationship, but other times it can be rather tricky to tell if you...
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Esse D
Jun 29, 20173 min read
6 Ways to Build Self-Confidence after a Break-up
I keep preaching about self-love and "being a better you" in my posts, but I haven't really said anything about how to do this. Sometimes...
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Esse D
Jun 10, 20172 min read
When You Can't Resist The Urge to be Irrational With Him
*The following story may be based on actual events... BUT... I will neither confirm or deny.* I lay in his lap watching Game of Thrones...
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Esse D
Jun 5, 20172 min read
5 Modest Ways to let Him Know You're Interested
Some women are naturally aggressive, but that's not always seen in the best light. Others are pretty passive and introverted, which may...
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Esse D
Jun 2, 20172 min read
Are You Punishing Your Partner For Your Ex's Shortcomings?
One thing I can say that hasn't been an issue for me, is giving every man a fair chance to build or break my trust. While not always...
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Esse D
May 17, 20172 min read
Are you dating a version of one of your parents?
They say you always end up dating a version of your mom or dad and it has a lot to do with the Oedipus complex (we're sexually attracted...
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Esse D
Mar 31, 20173 min read
The Social Media Facelift You Need to Attract Mr. Right
We need to talk. (Don't you just hate that phrase?) No, but seriously we do. If you're ready to get on the dating scene and have been...
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Esse D
Mar 1, 20172 min read
Don't let bae lose focus...
It is not your responsibility to groom your partner into an adult, but it IS your responsibility to motivate them to greatness. Maybe...
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Esse D
Feb 15, 20172 min read
Learning to be alone...
Tonight is actually a fitting night to address this issue that is common enough. I discussed this with a friend a while ago and was...
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Esse D
Dec 30, 20162 min read
We weren't raised compatible...
(This is my 2nd attempt at posting this, but I'm determined.) So I came across the above picture on Instagram and needless to say, it had...
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Esse D
Sep 19, 20161 min read
What I learned from Rob and Chyna...
So, I watched Rob and Chyna tonight and it really made me realize something very important about relationships. Before you start to judge...
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