Don't Use These 11 Tactics to Get His Attention
The first step in getting pursued by a guy is catching his attention. Some of us are better at it than others and some of us need near...
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Esse D
Jul 6, 20183 min read
6 Ways Millennials Screwed up the Dating Game
Millennials get blamed for everything… sometimes rightly so. In this case, it’s not entirely our fault. Think about it, we (because I’m a...
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Esse D
Jun 30, 20184 min read
5 Permanent Decisions NOT to Make When Your Relationship is New
Some of us fall in love FAST. There’s nothing wrong with it, but we must be careful how many permanent decisions we make while in the...
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Esse D
Jun 27, 20183 min read
Why Your Sex Won't Keep Him
*Looks over shoulder* I watch porn. Yes, I said it. Not addictively, but I check it out to see what the competition is looking like. I...
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Esse D
Jun 20, 20184 min read
8 Rules to Have A Healthy Dating Life While Co-Parenting
So you procreated with someone you’re no longer seeing. It happens. However, after the break-up, most people don’t swear off dating just...
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Esse D
Jun 16, 20184 min read
7 Things Dad Can Teach You About Your Man
Mom can’t teach you EVERYTHING about dating. Believe it or not, your dad (or father figure) can be a golden goose of knowledge when it...
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Esse D
Jun 9, 20184 min read
6 Elements that Lead to a Ring in 6 Months
So, one of your friends (or acquaintances) meets a guy and they get hot and heavy… FAST! You’re just like “awwww… puppy love” and then...
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Esse D
Jun 2, 20184 min read
7 Mandatory Rules For Staying After He Cheats
So, he cheated, and you stayed. No one’s judging you (okay maybe your close girlfriends are, but who are they to judge… right?). Things...
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Esse D
Apr 28, 20183 min read
8 Reasons Your Break-up Isn't Sticking
As childish as it may seem to break up to make up, middle aged adults are still doing it. Petty arguments get blown out of proportion or...
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Esse D
Apr 25, 20183 min read
9 Outlandish Dating Deal Breakers
Everyone has some type of deal breaker that will cancel all hope for a potential partner. I mean… we like what we like and avoid what we...
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Esse D
Apr 7, 20183 min read
5 Indicators You're Only In Love with His Potential
At some point we’ve all found ourselves holding on to a relationship because we know what it COULD be (never mind what it is in the...
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Esse D
Apr 4, 20184 min read
Storytime: He was "fake celibate"
So, in college, I was "talking" to this one guy and he hit me with a disclaimer up front. "I'm celibate, but I'll come out of it for...
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Esse D
Mar 31, 20183 min read
He’s a Boss, but I Need Attention!
Dating an entrepreneur or a career-driven person is definitely not easy, but there are worse things that could occur (so it’s workable)....
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Esse D
Feb 17, 20183 min read
6 Relevant Dating Tips from Grandma
I'm pretty much a broken record when it comes to talking about how the dating scene has shifted and why it's shifted. I know you're...
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Esse D
Nov 21, 20174 min read
8 Ways to Know if You Should Take Him Home For the Holidays
It's that time of year when everybody's grabbing a holibae* and making their way to family functions and holiday parties. You can't just...
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Esse D
Nov 12, 20175 min read
10 Reasons Why Playing Hard-to-Get is Played Out
Now I'm sure the title of the post leads you to believe that I'm a Jezebel sympathizer and will be encouraging you to let it all hang out...
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Esse D
Oct 24, 20173 min read
Becky with the Bad News
Everybody has that one friend or acquaintance that just can't resist giving you "the skinny" on your man or potential man. While it may...
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Esse D
Oct 16, 20173 min read
Dating Myths about the Millennial Woman
Honestly, there are so many stereotypes about millennials that I'm starting to lose track. We're seen as the spoiled generation that...
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Esse D
Oct 4, 20174 min read
7 Reasons Why Cookie Should Get Over Luscious
Empire's back for its fourth season and everyone is excited (I mean everyone). You probably can literally walk in ANY business office in...
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Esse D
Sep 24, 20174 min read
5 Things Season Two of HBO's Insecure Taught Us About Relationships
Although I'm an avid watcher of Insecure (HBO), I didn't cover ONE episode of the second season. Why? I had to digest it fully. Actually,...
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