What are We Wearing to Toya and Red's Wedding?
Now, I usually refuse to publicly “go up” for a couple, but there’s something I love about Toya Wright and Robert “Red” Rushing (and it’s...
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Esse D
Sep 14, 20194 min read
10 Sentiments You Didn't Know Were Toxic in Relationships
This is one of those topics where you’re going to want to shoot the messenger. Two things: I’m still going to keep it real and I’m bullet...
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Esse D
Jul 18, 20192 min read
Why You Shouldn’t Agree To An Open Relationship in Response to Cheating
I am and will ALWAYS be the most prude person around when it comes to open relationships, swinging, throuples, threesomes, etc. I DON’T...
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Esse D
Mar 27, 20192 min read
4 Chill Ways to Respond to His Criticisms
Everybody wants to believe that they are the most flawless partner on this side of heaven, but face it—we all have our flaws. It can be...
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Esse D
Jan 24, 20193 min read
6 Reasons Why You Should Want Your Man to be Observant NOT Detail-Oriented
It’s such a romantic thought to have a man that knows EVERYTHING about you. On the surface, it seems like it would be a dream come true,...
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Esse D
Jan 16, 20194 min read
9 Signs You May Be Overextending as a Girlfriend
You know how jobs want you to do the work of the next level for a while before they give you the promotion? Well, a lot of men are like...
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Esse D
Dec 8, 20183 min read
8 Independent Relationship Resolutions
It’s that time of year again where everybody has “resolutions” they just KNOW they will follow in the new year and people they just KNOW...
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Esse D
Aug 15, 20183 min read
How to Start Your Relationship Vision Board
Nobody likes homework, but this is a good “assignment”. Most of us think we are automatically ready to be in the relationship of our...
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Esse D
Jul 28, 20183 min read
6 Horrible Millennial Dating Trends
Millennials didn’t start ALL of the horrible dating trends, but I’ll be honest and say we’re responsible for a lot of the current ones....
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Esse D
Jun 6, 20183 min read
Your Man’s Female Best Friend
So, you met this guy and things got serious. You’re his girl, but you find out that you’re not the ONLY girl in his life. He has a woman...
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Esse D
Apr 22, 20182 min read
Are Millennial Men Looking for Housewives?
Our fathers and grandfathers had a certain type of woman in mind that fit the criteria for "wife material". She was more of a homemaker...
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Esse D
Apr 7, 20183 min read
5 Indicators You're Only In Love with His Potential
At some point we’ve all found ourselves holding on to a relationship because we know what it COULD be (never mind what it is in the...
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Esse D
Nov 12, 20175 min read
10 Reasons Why Playing Hard-to-Get is Played Out
Now I'm sure the title of the post leads you to believe that I'm a Jezebel sympathizer and will be encouraging you to let it all hang out...
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Esse D
Sep 24, 20174 min read
5 Things Season Two of HBO's Insecure Taught Us About Relationships
Although I'm an avid watcher of Insecure (HBO), I didn't cover ONE episode of the second season. Why? I had to digest it fully. Actually,...
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Esse D
Aug 31, 20173 min read
7 Football Terms Every Woman Should Know For a Game Day Date
We've all pretended to know more about something to impress a date, but when pretending goes wrong it can be less than impressive to your...
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Esse D
Jun 20, 20173 min read
8 Things Mothers Should Have Taught Their Sons About Dating
As the mother of a little boy, I started thinking of all the ways I could add value to his life and what I would need to teach him while...
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Esse D
Jun 10, 20172 min read
When You Can't Resist The Urge to be Irrational With Him
*The following story may be based on actual events... BUT... I will neither confirm or deny.* I lay in his lap watching Game of Thrones...
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Esse D
May 24, 20173 min read
8 Reasons You Should Take Him out of the Friendzone
Face it... The likelihood that you've probably curved your future husband is at least at 50%. This also means the odds of you getting...
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Esse D
May 10, 20173 min read
Should Women Do More Pursuing?
Just typing the title of this post alone has me flinching as if one of my aunts is behind me about to slap the back of my head. I grew up...
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Esse D
Mar 17, 20172 min read
Is your "checklist" getting you crossed off of Cupid's "To Do" List?
Finish the sentence. My potential mate has to have _______. Everybody has something to fill in that blank, but I've found SEVERAL...
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