6 Reasons You Should Bingewatch "Black Love"
I'll admit it. My finger isn't ALWAYS on the pulse of what's going on in the TV world, but I generally have an idea of what's hot. Having...
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Esse D
Jul 6, 20183 min read
6 Ways Millennials Screwed up the Dating Game
Millennials get blamed for everything… sometimes rightly so. In this case, it’s not entirely our fault. Think about it, we (because I’m a...
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Esse D
Jun 9, 20184 min read
6 Elements that Lead to a Ring in 6 Months
So, one of your friends (or acquaintances) meets a guy and they get hot and heavy… FAST! You’re just like “awwww… puppy love” and then...
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Esse D
Mar 3, 20183 min read
6 Absolutes About Dating a Man with a Child
Fresh onto the college scene, I was adamant about not dating a man with a child. I always wanted the experience of having a child to be...
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Esse D
Feb 14, 20184 min read
Black Love in Television History
When I tell you 90s sitcoms really shaped my ideas about love and relationships, I'm being totally honest! I had no examples of...
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Esse D
Aug 1, 20174 min read
5 Misconceptions Love Songs Create
I'll openly admit that music has been and always will be my anti-drug. (Remember those anti-drug campaigns from years ago?) When I need...
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Esse D
Jun 20, 20173 min read
8 Things Mothers Should Have Taught Their Sons About Dating
As the mother of a little boy, I started thinking of all the ways I could add value to his life and what I would need to teach him while...
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Esse D
May 24, 20173 min read
8 Reasons You Should Take Him out of the Friendzone
Face it... The likelihood that you've probably curved your future husband is at least at 50%. This also means the odds of you getting...
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Esse D
May 10, 20173 min read
Should Women Do More Pursuing?
Just typing the title of this post alone has me flinching as if one of my aunts is behind me about to slap the back of my head. I grew up...
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Esse D
Mar 17, 20172 min read
Is your "checklist" getting you crossed off of Cupid's "To Do" List?
Finish the sentence. My potential mate has to have _______. Everybody has something to fill in that blank, but I've found SEVERAL...
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Esse D
Mar 13, 20172 min read
Planning your wedding while single...
There's no problem with planning your future, but I've watched SEVERAL people obsess over a wedding before there's even a potential groom...
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Esse D
Mar 1, 20172 min read
Don't let bae lose focus...
It is not your responsibility to groom your partner into an adult, but it IS your responsibility to motivate them to greatness. Maybe...
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Esse D
Feb 15, 20172 min read
Learning to be alone...
Tonight is actually a fitting night to address this issue that is common enough. I discussed this with a friend a while ago and was...
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Esse D
Jan 16, 20172 min read
Losing Hope in Love
When I posted this picture on Instagram, it had already spoken to me, but it seemed to strike a nerve with a few of my followers. The...
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Esse D
Dec 30, 20162 min read
We weren't raised compatible...
(This is my 2nd attempt at posting this, but I'm determined.) So I came across the above picture on Instagram and needless to say, it had...
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Esse D
Dec 23, 20163 min read
Me or Social Media!
"It's either me or social media!"- So this must be the new age ultimatum. I've heard it so many times. I know it gets annoying to hear...
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Esse D
Dec 9, 20163 min read
Holibae Season
It never fails. As the holiday season approaches, you see some people scrounging to secure a "bae" or in this case... holibae. It can be...
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Esse D
Sep 19, 20161 min read
What I learned from Rob and Chyna...
So, I watched Rob and Chyna tonight and it really made me realize something very important about relationships. Before you start to judge...
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Esse D
Sep 17, 20162 min read
Hashtag... Relationship Goals
So we've all seen the celebrity couple pictures where both people look absolutely flawless. Or we see the picture of matching Rolexes,...
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Esse D
Sep 16, 20161 min read
Lira Galore Calls out black men... (Debate)
Apparently when Rick Ross's ex fiance, Lira Galore, sat down with Iyanla Vanzant on "Fix My Life", she had some things on her mind. Now I...
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