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Esse D
Apr 7, 20183 min read
5 Indicators You're Only In Love with His Potential
At some point we’ve all found ourselves holding on to a relationship because we know what it COULD be (never mind what it is in the...
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Esse D
Apr 4, 20184 min read
Storytime: He was "fake celibate"
So, in college, I was "talking" to this one guy and he hit me with a disclaimer up front. "I'm celibate, but I'll come out of it for...
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Esse D
Mar 31, 20183 min read
He’s a Boss, but I Need Attention!
Dating an entrepreneur or a career-driven person is definitely not easy, but there are worse things that could occur (so it’s workable)....
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Esse D
Mar 28, 20183 min read
What Type of Cheater are you Dealing With?
We all know and maybe have experienced a cheater at some point in our lives, but did you know that there are different types of cheaters?...
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Esse D
Mar 21, 20184 min read
Body Counts: A guide to having the conversation
What's your body count? Translation... how many people have you had sex with? This evasive question can open a can of worms in ANY...
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Esse D
Mar 17, 20183 min read
How to Lurk Effectively
We’ve all done it. (Lurked, that is.) I’ll explain for those who aren’t familiar with this terminology. Lurking is basically snooping on...
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Esse D
Mar 10, 20182 min read
5 Reason’s Not to Use Sex to Solve an Argument
"Angry sex is the best." I’ve heard soooo many people say this and actually START arguments for the sake of having angry sex. While angry...
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Esse D
Mar 3, 20183 min read
6 Absolutes About Dating a Man with a Child
Fresh onto the college scene, I was adamant about not dating a man with a child. I always wanted the experience of having a child to be...
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Esse D
Feb 28, 20183 min read
Glow Up: The Birth of a Frog
Conceit is a helluva drug. I often discuss the different “frog” types and I think the one I’ll discuss here is probably one of the...
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Esse D
Feb 24, 20183 min read
I caught my friend's boyfriend cheating. Now what?
Prayers up, fingers crossed, and throw a rabbit's foot over your right shoulder in hopes that this NEVER happens. In the most unfortunate...
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Esse D
Feb 17, 20183 min read
6 Relevant Dating Tips from Grandma
I'm pretty much a broken record when it comes to talking about how the dating scene has shifted and why it's shifted. I know you're...
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Esse D
Feb 14, 20184 min read
Black Love in Television History
When I tell you 90s sitcoms really shaped my ideas about love and relationships, I'm being totally honest! I had no examples of...
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Esse D
Feb 10, 20183 min read
Avoid These 5 Places on Valentine's Day if You're Single
Not everybody is on the receiving end of gifts and lovie dovie gestures on Valentine’s Day. It’s actually nicknamed Single’s Awareness...
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Esse D
Feb 6, 20183 min read
A Week’s Worth of Romantic Gestures for Him
Hi loves! With Valentine’s Day right around the corner, I’m sure (if you’re a good girlfriend) you’re looking for something special for...
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Esse D
Dec 28, 20173 min read
6 Ways to Tell if He's Worth Waiting For
It's engagement season and if you haven't already, you'll be seeing high school classmates, coworkers and acquaintances start to post...
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Esse D
Dec 5, 20173 min read
5 Things Your Gift Says about You
Gift giving has become the staple of relationships (no matter the stage of the relationship). Newer couples try to be more creative...
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Esse D
Nov 21, 20174 min read
8 Ways to Know if You Should Take Him Home For the Holidays
It's that time of year when everybody's grabbing a holibae* and making their way to family functions and holiday parties. You can't just...
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Esse D
Nov 12, 20175 min read
10 Reasons Why Playing Hard-to-Get is Played Out
Now I'm sure the title of the post leads you to believe that I'm a Jezebel sympathizer and will be encouraging you to let it all hang out...
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Esse D
Nov 7, 20172 min read
Reward Him by Seeing from His Perspective
Terri: Ron was whining again and I was running low on patience. I stared into my phone and waited for him to stop. It suddenly got quiet...
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Esse D
Oct 24, 20173 min read
Becky with the Bad News
Everybody has that one friend or acquaintance that just can't resist giving you "the skinny" on your man or potential man. While it may...
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